A dream I had

I had a pretty bad dream last night about my wife's health scare.  This really happened, Last September my wife got really sick having bad pains in her gut, it turned out to be her gall bladder. We set up a appointment to get it removed and she did haveit removed, about 2 weeks later she was in intense pain again and went to a urologist and she had kidney stones which she had removed a couple of days later another week went by and here comes the pain again. The doctor thought he didnt get all of the stones so round 2 of kidney stone removal,  a week later here comes the pain again back to the ER, they admit her into hospital saying pancreatitus. My wife stayed in hospital for 4 days. She was released from hospital. Two days later pain again, back to ER, another hospital stay. 4 days later back home.  December 6 my wife's birthday, back to the ER another hospital stay. Came home again. Christmas day back to ER, while waiting a dr came into room and said she doesnt think my wife will make it through the night. I lose it. They admit my wife again. I tell Dr something needs to be done and I want answers, I tell him if they cant figure out then find someone who can figure it out. They find a specialist in another town and we set up appointment on January 6.  Within minutes of appointment we got the answer which meant one more surgery which they did that evening. It appears the Dr who removed gall bladder messed up and did not get all the infection out of my wife. After last operation and hospital stay and a months worth of strong antibiotics my wife is pain free and feels good.

My dream last night was of the ER doctor saying my wife was going to die and I couldnt leave the room I was in to go be with my wife knowing she was going to die. I finally woke up and it really made me think about when that Dr making that comment saying my wife wont make it through the night. The more I think about it the more pissed I am getting. All of this because the original doctor screwed up and I have to pay thousand of dollars in medical bills.

I am still debating if I want to file a lawsuit against the DR and the hospital.

You've done the best you can for your wife. That is all you can ask for, especially in regard to her health. If one doctor isn't getting the job, it's your job to find one who can and will.

true. I dont like the dream that I had already experienced it once dont want to multiple times.

Amulet1 wrote:true. I dont like the dream that I had already experienced it once dont want to multiple times.

You can control what you dream through prayer, at least that's my belief. I don't go to sleep without asking God to watch over my sleep, and watch over my dreams. The biggest battles we (in the faith) go through is in our minds.

The Last Outlaw wrote:

Amulet1 wrote:true. I dont like the dream that I had already experienced it once dont want to multiple times.

You can control what you dream through prayer, at least that's my belief.  I don't go to sleep without asking God to watch over my sleep, and watch over my dreams.  The biggest battles we (in the faith) go through is in our minds.

That is true. I always say a prayer before I go to sleep.